Baby Mama
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IMDB rating: 6.30 Plot: Successful and single businesswoman Kate Holbrook has long put her career ahead of a personal life. Now 37, she’s finally determined to have a kid on her own. But her plan is thrown a curve ball after she discovers she has only a million-to-one chance of getting pregnant. Undaunted, the driven Kate allows South Philly working girl Angie Ostrowiski to become her unlikely surrogate. Simple enough … After learning from the steely head of their surrogacy center that Angie is pregnant, Kate goes into precision nesting mode: reading childcare books, baby-proofing the apartment and researching top pre-schools. But the executive’s well-organized strategy is turned upside down when her Baby Mama shows up at her doorstep with no place to live. An unstoppable force meets an immovable object as structured Kate tries to turn vibrant Angie into the perfect expectant mom. In a battle of wills, they will struggle their way through preparation for the baby’s arrival. And in the middle of this tug-of-war, they’ll discover two kinds of family: the one you’re born to and the one you make. |
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Actors: Kinnear Greg,Shepard Dax,Malco Romany,Martin Steve,Mailer Stephen,Rebhorn James,O’Hare Denis,Collins Kevin,Forte Will,Armisen Fred,Comedy,
Looking for some outside advice….10 points!?
Ok so here is the short form of my story.
I have a 3 month old baby and my bf and i are living together and raising our son together. Him and i have been toogether for almost 2 and a half years off and on.
Our relationship began rockey and my bf has never been affectionate or able to say he loves me. He has serious mama drama with his mother and other family issues that he has had all his life.
During my pregnancy my bf and i were better than we were ever before…almost on cloud 9. Than the baby was born and the xmas season is hard on my bf cause his mother is very mentally ill. He started abussimg me physcially and mentally and i left him and told him if he wanted to be with me and our son he needed to get some help. He has started therapy and has really improved and we have since moved back in together.
But i feel very insecure still in our relationship. He never tells me he loves me, i have to beg for hugs and kisses and i feel like he treats me like one of his buddies. I had a talk with him the other day about how i felt and he kept saying he does love me but i dont believe him i think he is trying to love me so he can be with me to raise our son together. I dont want to be in a loveless relationship and i dont know what to do. I am seeking counselling as well but that is taking a long time as i am on a waiting list.
I want to believe my bf that he truely does love me but i just cant see it. I have asked him to be more affectionate for the last 2 years and have seen no improvement. I feel that if he did love me he would be able to tell me and that he would respect the fact that i need more affection even if he is not an "affectionate guy".
I told him that one day he will want to ACTUALLY be in love and if he ever find it he will leave us. I dont want that to happen as i feel my son will be old enough to understand by than and resent his father like my bf resents his dad for doing that to his mom. I keep telling him we should end this before my son understands but he keeps telling me we are gonna make it work but i continue to feel unhappy.
Any oppinions on this are very much appreciated and if there is any advice you can give me on what i can do please let me know.
Thank you
Sometimes it can be a great thing to put in lots of hard work to make a relationship work for the sake of your child – but other times, it can be more damaging for the child than it would be to end it. If you’re able to actually make it work and have everyone come out happy, then bravo! But if you’re miserable in the relationship, and especially if there is abuse or a lack of love/affection, it will be a hostile environment in which to raise your child. Only you can decide which situation you’re in – but think it over very carefully. Good luck!
Schmeh | Feb 01, 2010
The bottom line here is that you’re not getting what you need from this relationship. Your concerns about how this is going to affect your son are also very valid – people learn how to relate to their life partners by watching their parents together. Maybe he really does love you, although it doesn’t sound like he does. Even then, your feelings count here too and this relationship is clearly damaging you. It’s great that he wants to help raise your kid but that doesn’t mean you have to do it as a couple.
My advice: break up, move out, and come to some sort of shared parenting arrangements that will suit you both.
Paul | Feb 01, 2010

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