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Missing, The (2003)
IMDB rating: 6.40
Plot: In 19th-century New Mexico, a father (Tommy Lee Jones) comes back home, hoping to reconcile with his adult daughter Maggie (Cate Blanchett). Maggie’s daughter is kidnapped, forcing father and estranged daughter to work together to get her back.
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Directors: Howard Ron
Actors: Jones Tommy Lee,Eckhart Aaron,Kilmer Val,Calderon Sergio,Schweig Eric,Reevis Steve,Tavare Jay,Baker Simon,McKinnon Ray,Perlich Max,Frank Ramon,Lujan Deryle J.,Adventure,Thriller,Western,
I still cant get over my ex-girlfriend. why?
she broke up with me 6 months ago, and i thought i’d be over it by now but im not. i literally have her on my mind everyday and it just hurts me so much. she dumped me because she thought i was only into her for the sex, which was not true. she was a virgin, and i didn’t know she was feeling uncomfortable having sex multiple times a week. i was pretty dumb, and i wish we never had sex so i could show her how much she meant to me.
i tried my hardest to explain to her this, that i didnt mean to treat her like that and didnt know she was uncomfortable, but she refused to take me back. even 6 months later when we talked about the break up and my feelings for her (after starting a friendship a month and a half ago) she says she cant be in a relationship with me. says she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with anyone. i can tell she is serious, cause she said the same thing after our break up and she still hasn’t been with any guys since then. well she hasn’t talked to me since then, and i dont think she wants to be my friend anyone despite saying we’re still friends after that talk.
i just really cared so much for this girl, i loved her. i been dating a lot lately, been talking to girls. even had this one girl i talked to all night up until morning, but even then it still made me miss my ex so much. i want to stop remembering her. i keep my mind occupied, been going out almost everyday, started an instrument talked to old friends. everything i could possibly do to keep my mind busy, and she is in my every thought. will i ever get her out of my head?
You have the most common disease known to man, one-itis. You keep think that she is the only one this and the only one that. This happens to a lot of guys. The cure is to date a ton more women. I went through something very similar and I cured it the same way.
You need to get back on the field and realize what is possible. Playing music is cool, but something tells me you only write songs about her. That’s not gonna cure you. It makes you addicted to sadness as it becomes your muse.
So you need to decide to change you life and start taking action. You can read all about my journey on my blog. I posted the link below if you’re interested.
London Paladin | Feb 07, 2010
Yeah…it stinks. I know. Trust me. I’ve been there man. But it gets better. You’ll find another person who’ll make you forget about her. I know this seems crazy now but when you find her, you’ll see.
MT | Feb 07, 2010
My friends all said I wouldn’t get over my ex until I met someone better. I was with him for almost 3 years. I still have days where I get sad about it, but making new friends has helped a lot.
Meli | Feb 07, 2010
Yes, you will eventually lose the feelings for her. It’s not like she’s the only girl in the world. There is bound to be someone that will fit your criteria. You just have to give other girls a chance. That’s all.
Dr. Duya | Feb 07, 2010
i’m so sorry hun:( i wasn’t going to read this cuz it’s so long, but the more i read it the more i felt for you cuz i’ve been through that myself. i’m sorry babe but you just have to give it time. it sucks i know, but i promise that things will turn out ok. just give her space and deal with your feelings instead of pushing them down. it really helped me to write it all down so i could get it out and deal with it. it won’t go away if you try to forget it. i’d suggest a notebook to write it in and then just let it heal.
Jonatha | Feb 07, 2010
dude, im only saying this to help you out..
She is more than likely blowing and banging another guy now several times a day. She figured out once she left you that she likes the black cock and is shagging with a 50 cent wannabee looking dude..
Dont worry find another chick i think you havent had too much poon yourself.. so go out there and get someting new.. or Smoke some weed
Jaime | Feb 07, 2010
Man, I know what you’re going through. Last may my girlfriend broke up with me and like you I couldn’t get her out of my head. Seeing her every single day(we live in a small town) hurt. I wanted to get over her, I thought I NEEDED to get over her. I ended up going out wit a different girl for a few months but ended up breaking her heart because I still wasn’t ready. I told her I still needed time to get over some one and she took it to mean there was another girl involved.. anyways, my first ex, the one I couldn’t get over, was there to comfort me about the break up. It took 8 months for her to realize that she did want me. maybe, your girl is getting there as well. Tell her how you still feel, if she’s anything like my girl, or most girls for that matter, she’ll give you a second chance.
Chemist | Feb 07, 2010
